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blackjack4077 asked: Because i think your beautiful and amazing and i dont see you just as a sexual object like everyone else..i see you as a beautiful girl that has eyes that make me melt and can be her own person than have people telling her what to do or how to liveit
eeveestevie-deactivated20160629:
Wow. fuck off. You’re not special.
Okay, so, I just woke up to a shit ton of messages of people asking me how I could respond to this “nice gentleman” in this manner. Considering, he was “just trying to compliment” me, n’ all. Let me dissect this for you guys real quick and show you what stood out as a warning sign to me in this ask.
In the span of my short life so far, I have been in and out of a number of emotionally and physically abusive relationships. I have been hit by my “lover” before. I have been raped by someone I trusted. I have had my money stolen from me, because he made threats. I have had someone send me pictures of him cutting himself and tell me that if I didn’t do what he wanted, he would continue doing it.
Through all of these issues and relationships, there was one key thing that stood out to me. One way that all of these people spoke to me. The phrase that stuck out to me in this message was, “I dont see you just as a sexual object like everyone else.”
That’s the fucking warning sign. That one part, “EVERYONE ELSE.” He is the ONLY ONE that sees me this way. Because no one else ever could, because, after all, I’m an unlovable slut, am I not? A girl who posts degrading photos and videos of herself on the internet. I should feel LUCKY that he sees me this way. Seeing me this way is difficult for him, he should be praised for this accomplishment, of caring for this girl who’s nothing but a sex object.
Through every abusive relationship I have ever had, that has been the manipulation tactic. To say, “You have this problem, it makes you hard to love, so you better cling to me because I’m the only one who is ever going to be able to deal with that. “
Dear everyone: DO NOT stick around for a single second if anyone uses this manipulation tactic with you. Don’t tell yourself that they’re different. Don’t tell yourself that they didn’t really mean it. Don’t tell yourself that none of this stuff could ever happen to you, so what’s the rush? Through my experiences, this has been the number fucking one tactic in every person who ended up treating me like actual garbage.
Run. The. Fuck. Away.
Barbie Dad: [singing] “When I was just a little girl, I asked my mother what will I be. Will I be pretty? Will I be rich?”
Child offscreen: [shouting] “Mom! Dad’s being weird again!”
Barbie Dad: [shouting] “No, I’m not!”
(Source: weloveshortvideos.com, via hotboyproblems)
Respect girls who are virgins respect girls who suck 7 dicks at a time respect girls who don’t like dick respect girls who have dicks
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eldu:
if anyone EVER asks why you like beyonce or they say they don’t understand the hype… just show them this
omygod i just died because he was recording it the whole time and i didn’t know im crying
did yall see that lip bite and the way her eyebrows are so nice and how delicately she played the piano and how how HAPPy she was at the end kill me now just kill me i love bey so much f u CK
(via fuckyeahloldemort)
Excoriation disorder (also known as dermatillomania, skin-picking disorder, neurotic excoriation, acne excoriee, pathologic skin picking (PSP), compulsive skin picking (CSP) or psychogenic excoriation) is an impulse control disorder characterized by the repeated urge to pick at one’s own skin, often to the extent that damage is caused.
I photoshopped my scars away, because I didn’t want to show how it looks like but how it feels like.
Peeling paint stocks by prudentia and FoxStox.
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how the fuck did we get from there to where we are today
I am so here for this.
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(via jamjars)
-there’s no such thing a “popping a cherry”
- having a lot of sex doesn’t make you “loose” , nor does it “make your walls disappear”
-you’re not supposed to bleed or experience extreme pain your first time having sex (some women bleed for other reasons but it shouldn’t be due to lack of arrousal and foreplay)
-the idea of virginity is sexist
-having sex the 30th time can be just as special as your first time
-having sex does not make you “less pure”
-There is no medical or biological definition of virginity- the concept of virginity was created to control female sexuality
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“I hope we last. I hope we do.
But if we don’t, this is how I want you to remember me:
I want you to remember me curled up, listening to the sound of your heartbeat and tracing maps across your skin. Remember me laughing at your jokes, even the stupid ones. Remember me in hysterics for absolutely no reason and in tears because one time you made me so sad neither of us thought I’d recover. Remember me brave, that time you held my hand and I thought I was going to die; remember me scared and gentle and delicate and breakable - only for you though, only for you.
Remember me happy, and all the ridiculous ways I tried to get your attention. Remember the way I was too stubborn to talk to you and how absolutely insane it drove the both of us. Remember all the firsts and how they were so delightful we went back for seconds and thirds and fourths. Remember the songs you couldn’t stop listening to and the childish dreams you allowed yourself about the future. If it’s any consolation I allowed myself to have them too.
If it comes to it I don’t want you to remember the ending.
Remember the beginning. Remember the first time you knew.
"(via suxtosuk)
http://www.yourholidaymom.com/ is a blog run by a bunch of moms (and sometimes other parents) who will post a letter to you daily until Christmas with words of acceptance and welcome. It was designed specifically as a project for kids and adults who face rejection over the holidays because of their sexuality or gender. This meant a lot to me the first year that I was isolated by my family, and I wanted to share it with all of you.
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don’t cater to straight boys laziness by pretending they’re better in bed than they are. don’t fake orgasms. don’t tolerate bad sex. if you go down on them, ask them to go down on you. tell them how to make you orgasm. tell them if something hurts. don’t let men think they’re sex gods when they have no fucking idea what they’re doing.
Reblogging because I think this needs to be read.